The cons of dating a younger man
Our relationship experts share their best advice on the subject.
It’s extremely individual on which men are mature enough to handle dating an older woman, and which are not, according to Dallisa Hocking, founder of Frog Kisser.
Also, many of the commonly held beliefs about dating a younger man or woman — for instance, that a junior partner may lack maturity — aren’t true, relationship expert and columnist April Masini told Fox News.
“There are plenty of younger people who are a lot more mature than older men and women, and who are such go-getters that they're more successful than people twice their age,” Masini said.
Data seem to support that idea: A 2003 AARP survey of about 3,500 single men and women ages 40 to 69 found about 66 percent of men want to date younger women and 34 percent of women want to date younger men.
EXPERTS SAY THIS IS THE BEST WAY TO FLIRT Celebrities like actor and director Mel Gibson, whose partner Rosalind Ross is 35 years his junior, and director Sam Taylor-Johnson, whose husband, actor Aaron Taylor-Johnson, is 24 years younger than her, apparently agree with that notion.
Older parents who have their own children, on the other hand, may not want to take on a step-parenting role due to lifestyle preferences or a preoccupation with parenting their own biological youngsters.
“A younger partner has more energy, and usually fewer or no kids of his or her own,” Masini said.
If you can drop the judgment and not politicize this choice, and just see it as a fact, a younger partner has appeal that older ones don’t.” MAKE UP OR BREAK UP? You may gain a parenting partner Believe it or not, younger partners may be more open-minded about the idea of lending a hand in step-parenting your kids, Masini said.The maturity difference in a 20-year-old man versus a 30-year-old man is vast.So a 25-year-old woman might shy away from a man five years younger than herself, but when she’s 35, she’d be more interested in dating him because he’s more mature and is her equal. “It widens a woman’s choice if she is in her 30’s or 40’s especially.“With individuals maturing differently and at various times, I believe that a numerical age shouldn't have much weight when finding a lasting relationship.I know women that have dated younger men and they have had amazingly rich partnerships. I know women, myself included, that have dated men that are older and have found they are not ready for an emotionally mature relationship.
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“And in reverse, many older partners want a younger partner that they can teach and mold,” Masini said.