Dating several people at once
So I want to be clear — a few dates with a guy is by no means a "relationship" with him.
Problems arise when women feel prematurely attached to a man, which makes them unwilling to date other guys.
And, meeting lots of men means you are far more likely to find the right one for you.
Last month, I wrote to two men that I was very interested in.
I am trying not to let things move too fast physically or emotionally, but they both seem very interested and I just don’t know what to do.
Making a decision about a guy is no different than any other decision.
However, this is not something I have ever done before and I am having a hard time with the idea of juggling.
The problem is that I really like both of them and they both seem to be really amazing guys.
Things have been going well, and I give a lot of credit to what I have learned from your book, emails and this site.
Here are some reasons why dating more than one guy at a time is a very smart strategy to find lasting love: Many women fall into the trap of wanting to see how their connection with one guy plays out.
They end up hooked on a partner that's not right because they focused in before they knew enough about him.
This limits your options before you even know if you're on the right path.
That's how heartbreak happens — when you think you've found "the one" after two dates, and then he never calls again.