So there ought to be the growth of that desire, yet it ought to be kept under control until it can be consummated within the marriage relationship. Find an older couple, give them absolute freedom to ask you difficult questions, and then commit between the two of you, you will always ask, no answer honestly. Asking you those blunt questions, that will be tremendously, tremendously helpful.
Community is so helpful in appealing to other people. If you know there’s a couple you love and respect, who’ll be coming to you and saying, how are you guys doing? You can appeal to them, you can ask them for help, you can ask them for prayer.
In this video I discuss some common questions about dating and purity.
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Before that, the couple has to take the initiative.So, how do you avoid committing sexual sin, how do you remain pure? So, until you’re actually married, then she becomes your wife and then you can relate to her as a wife, which includes, of course, a sexual relationship.Until that stage, you must treat her as a mother, treat her as a sister.But so much of the Christian life comes down to this. So, pray that God would give you a deep desire for holiness, take away the desire to sin.There are some myths out there that people assume to be gospel about dating.
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